Often, girls who like older men don’t specifically target older men to date or even marry; it just seems to happen that such girls prefer an older partner.
Of course, no two people are the same and when it comes to young girls who like older guys, it’s hard to pinpoint exactly what the key reasons are for such attraction.
Older men can, often, be seen as being more mature and experienced in ways of the world than many younger guys who may not be emotionally ready to settle down into a steady relationship.
Young girls can appreciate the two above traits of maturity and experience as virtues and prefer to be in the company of a person who is prepared to give them more attention and a greater level of comfort and assurance than a relatively immature younger man. Many younger men in their early 20s want to be spending more time with their friends or playing sports etc.
Another key attraction for younger girls who like older men is that older men are more likely than not to be financially more secure, and will be able to, firstly, make sure that the younger girl has the material comforts she needs but also, secondly, for example, be able to nurture the younger girls career if she has freshly graduated or just starting along the road on her career journey.
This does not mean that the younger girl is totally financially dependent upon the older man nor that their relationship is one akin to a “sugar daddy” situation. In reality, it just often works out that older men prefer to demonstrate that they can take really care of their younger girlfriend – maybe as they have learned how to properly look after a woman better as they have aged!
In the past, sometimes, younger girls in relationships with older men were frowned upon as being outside of social norms. However, with the general liberalisation of society at large, possibly due in part to the huge information resources available on the internet – plus the fact that, with on-line voice and text access to all parts of the world in seconds, people, by and large, have become more aware of the phenomenon of younger girls dating older men.
Fortunately, in modern times we live in a word where most people are free to choose their partners and, if a young girl chooses to date or even marry an older man, then this type of relationship has become just one of many other relationship types which are now commonplace.